Monthly Archives: June 2010

Poems For Little Darlings

Reading The Drowsy Hours

Poetry has been a great source of comfort and joy to me recently. When it came to reading to Maya, however, I had pretty much stuck to reading stories i.e. prose. The only poetry she may have encountered were nursery rhymes. When she expressed what I thought was joy on reading a poem to her recently, I was intrigued and thought to read her poetry along with stories. But what poems ? Were there any that are written for children ? And if they are, how good were they ? Were they better than nursery rhymes ? What constituted good poems for children ?

It was as I was reading Dr. Seuss’ Cat In The Hat that I realized that what Maya enjoyed was the sound of the words: the cadence, the inflections, the way the words sounded when strung together and the way it was read. I also wanted to read poems that would grow with her, poems that would ingrain in her a love of language, demonstrate how imagination can give flight to words and words can fuel imagination till together, there is just pure joy in reading the work. Now, did such works exist ?

I first heard of Robert Louis Stevenson’s “A Child’s Garden of Verse” as I listened to Bill Moyers’ interview of W.S. Merwin. I ran into a reference to it in another book of poems. I checked out the book from the local library and together, Maya and I fell in love with the poems. From the very first poem, “Bed in Summer”, the book grabbed us.

In winter I get up at night
And dress by yellow candle-light.
In summer quite the other way,
I have to go to bed by day.

I have to go to bed and see
The birds still hopping on the tree,
Or hear the grown-up people’s feet
Still going past me in the street.

And does it not seem hard to you,
When all the sky is clear and blue,
And I should like so much to play,
To have to go to bed by day?

The poems were imaginative, well written enough to be enjoyed by an adult, but reflected the fantasies and the world of a child. Delightful verses abound:

I saw the dimpling river pass
And be the sky’s blue looking-glass;
The dusty roads go up and down
With people tramping in to town.        – from Foreign Lands

One morning, very early, before the sun was up,
I rose and found the shining dew on every buttercup;
But my lazy little shadow, like an arrant sleepy-head,
Had stayed at home behind me and was fast asleep in bed.   – from My Shadow

Dark brown is the river,
Golden is the sand.
It flows along for ever,
With trees on either hand.

Green leaves a-floating,
Castles of the foam,
Boats of mine a-boating–
Where will all come home?                                         – from Where Go The Boats ?

Among the 65 or so poems in the book are long poems such as “Travel” and 4 line poems such as “Rain” and even 2 line poems such as “The Happy Thought”. The verse is first class, but they always reflected a child’s world, a world of trees, fantasies and play. Stevenson was sick for much of his childhood (what it was is still open to debate, with diagnosis ranging from tuberculosis to sarcoidosis). Many of his poems such as “The Land of Counterpane” reflect the life of a sick child. He was cared for by a nurse, Alison Cunningham. Her tender care so defined his childhood that he dedicated the “Child’s Garden of Verse” to her, writing:

From the sick child, now well and old,
Take, nurse, the little book you hold!

And grant it, Heaven, that all who read
May find as dear a nurse at need,
And every child who lists my rhyme,
In the bright, fireside, nursery clime,
May hear it in as kind a voice
As made my childish days rejoice!

Maya wants me to read the book starting with the dedication and reading the first twenty or so poems. Consequently, she (and I) hasn’t yet gotten to reading the later poems. “Papa, dhodu book odhu, from her boy” she says, “from her boy” being the title of the dedication (To Alison Cunningham From Her Boy). The copy that I have is beautifully illustrated by Michael Foreman, though Maya hardly glances much at them.

Reading the poems such as “The Lamplighter” or even “Bed in Summer” provide a glimpse of what life was like in those pre-electricity days. Poems like “A Thought” reflect the religious fervor with which his nurse raised him.

Once we were hooked on these poems, I sought out other books of poems for little children. I thus ran into The Drowsy Hours, a collection of 16 poems meant for bedtime reading. The collection has some superb poems starting with this one, called Nightfall by Barbara Juster Esbensen:

One by one
that dark magician
Night
folds the colors of the day
like scarves
and hides them
in his sleeves

There are so many other wonderful poems such as “Wynken, Blynken and Nod” by Eugene Field, The Starlighter by Arthur Guiterman, The Gentle Giant by Dennis Lee and Manhattan Lullaby by Norma Farber. Here is an excerpt from The Mouse by Elizabeth Coatsworth:

I heard a mouse
Bitterly complaining
In a crack of moonlight
Aslant on the floor —

“Little I ask
and that little is not granted
There are few crumbs
In this world any more.

The breadbox is tin
and I cannot get in.

The jam’s in a jar
That my teeth cannot mar.”

Some of the poems in these two books are so melodious that they have been set to music. For example, a quick search of Wynken, Blynken and Nod yields several Youtube videos of popular artists performing the poem.

Now, I alternate playing music and reading poetry to her as part of her bedtime ritual.

My only wish with reading these to her is to get her to appreciate the intermingling of imagination and language. Merwin says in the aforementioned interview: “Its very important if their parents can read to them. And not just read prose, to read poetry. Because listening to poetry is not the same as listening to prose. And those children who’ve grown up hearing a parent reading poems to them are changed by that forever. They have it forever. They always have that voice.  They always hear it. Always able to hear it“.

Three

Here it is once again this one note
from a string of longing

the same note goes on calling
across space and is heard
in the old night and known there
a silence recognized
by the silence it calls to             – W.S. Merwin (from Calling A Distant Animal)

I felt this day coming at me from a long time ago. Why, I don’t know. I felt an anxiety, a heightened anticipation, a little like some forthcoming important finals.

And then when we returned last night from our Canadian vacation, I realized that coming back from a vacation to an empty home was still an alien feeling. Its been three years to the day, sweet Kitty, that we’ve returned to the house of no you. The anxiety was my body trying to cope with this fact. And today, I was randomly turning the pages of Merwin’s collection of luminous verse, “The Shadow of Sirius” when the poem sprang at me. Reminding me. Of that note of longing, for a glimpse of orange fur, for the smell of cat lick and bath scent that was uniquely yours, for the feel of your soft fur, the sweet sound of your meow and the purr that reminded me that I was home.

The third year of no you has been a far better one than the previous two. Hardly a day has gone by when I haven’t thought of you, you walking flea condo, but I’ve mostly thought of you with a smile on my face, not the tears that were the hallmark of the two years before. If the smile suddenly turned wistful, it was because I remembered my now unrequited dream of Maya knowing you and you knowing her.

When I ask Shanthala what she wants to say on this day, she just cries. I still miss him so, she whispers.

Friends ask me if we’ll let another cat adopt us. I say I don’t know. I still haven’t gotten past that.

Now you are darker than I can believe
it is not wisdom that I have come to
with its denials and pure promises
but this absence that I cannot set down   – W.S. Merwin (from Night with No Moon)

Some nights, when I’m holding Maya, my hands remember the way you curled next to me, adjusting them till you were content. Some nights, when I hear her sigh in her sleep, my ears recall the way you sighed, your purr stopping just before you feel asleep. And when she calls to me at midnight, when I’m away from her, I’m haunted by the memory of how you came seeking me, meowing your unhappiness at my not being in bed at that late hour.

But where I was bereft, I’m now more grateful for our times together. I loved you so much, I love you as much even now. If there is one thing that we the living, can ask of absent friends like you, it is this.

o closest to my breath
if you are able to
please wait a little longer
on that side of the cloud                     – W.S. Merwin (from Into the Cloud)

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Maya In The Rockies, Part 1: Arrival

For our summer break, Shanthala wanted to go to Switzerland. I balked at the suggestion because of the travel time and the jetlag. It takes Maya about a week to recover from her jetlag. If we went for a week, we’d jetlagged for two or more weeks. How about the Canadian Rockies, I suggested ? I’ve heard Banff is spectacular, and you get your mountains and we save on the jetlag, I said. So, we booked our tickets to Calgary (considerably cheaper than the over $1000 per pop ticket to Switzerland) in April. Then came the hurricane of work that buried us and from which we’re still recovering (with no help from FEMA). With Shanthala’s schedule hardly permitting her a break even on weekends, there was a modest possibility that we would even have to cancel this trip. But, almost at the last minute, things perked up for her and we flew to Calgary.

Unlike just five months ago, Maya’s anticipation of the upcoming trip was palpable. She repeated everyday, for over a week, that she wanted to get on an airplane, rent a van and climb mountains (“hattu betta” is her Kannada expression). When we got to the airport, she was thrilled, even if cranky because of the early morning start. She couldn’t wait to board the plane and was busy picking which plane she’d like to board. Running back and forth on a nearby escalator and a front seat view of the runway helped pass time till we got on the plane. She was well behaved throughout the flight. She could barely contain her excitement on getting into the van. “No car”, she declared vehemently several times after she got in.

Shanthala and I have not stayed in hotels since a long, long time. We discovered cottage rentals and have never looked back. For just about the same price, we get a huge place with the convenience of cooking our meals and much more. For example, the place we’re staying at has a giant LCD TV in the living room and plasma screen TVs in each of the bedrooms. Each bedroom is also equipped with its own CD and DVD players. The condo is superby furnished with paintings and other works of art. There are lots of reading materials and cardboard games. The house also comes with free phone usage for calls anywhere within the US and Canada. And a free pass to Banff National Park. Hiking trails begin right outside our condo. The location of course is what most of what these places are about. Here is the view from our bedroom.

And this is what the living room looks like.

We’re staying at Canmore, about 20 kms from the town of Banff, and about 10 kms from the entrance to the Banff National Park. Like many such little towns in Canada, Canmore came to existence thanks to the Canadian Pacific Railway. It became a mining town which drove much of the local economy (so many of the places we’ve come to admire came into existence thanks to the activities of environmentally dismal industries such as mining and railroads). In 1979, the last mine closed down, putting the city on the crossroads to reinventing itself or becoming a ghost town. Fortunate proximity to Banff National Park and Calgary allowed the town to reinvent itself as a tourist spot. The Nordic events of the 1988 Winter Olympics were held in Canmore. And so it now is a popular spot with locals from Calgary who prefer this place to the more expensive Banff.

There is hardly a glimpse of the mountains from Calgary. But here in Canmore, we’re surrounded on all sides by mountains of staggering beauty. The place feels a little like Yosemite on a grander, larger canvas. We even have a mountain, Mt. Rundle, that resembles the famed Half Dome.

As the day of departure approached, I looked at the weather report and was dismayed. Rain was predicted practically every day that we would be there. We landed in Calgary under mostly sunny skies. And today, Sunday, has been picture perfect. Maya has been so strenuously demanding that she climb a mountain, that we decided to hike up Tunnel Mountain. A popular hike because it is short and provides grand vistas of the neighboring mountains and valleys, we started up the trail around 11 AM. Maya was in great form, hiking the little over a mile trail to the summit, but almost 1000 feet up from the start of the hike.

The views along the way were grand.

She was too tired to hike down, but that was as we expected.

And before I close, it seems like I can’t stop speaking of the iPhone. In just about every place we’ve been to, I’ve desperately sought to know the names of the peaks that held us in their thrall. But it was usually in vain. The iPhone has a bunch of apps that use the the compass, accelerometer, camera and GPS that provide a fix for my curiosity. I picked one called “Peaks”, developed by a company called Augmented Outdoors. I looked at a few different apps and zeroed in on this one due to its interface and features, especially its ability to work completely offline. I didn’t want to pay expensive roaming charges to satisfy my curiosity.

Once we were settled in our condo, I started up the app and pointed it at the mountains to see how well it would do. I can’t say that I’m completely satisfied, but its pretty good. Apparently, the compass in the iPhone isn’t as accurate as it can be and this causes errors in the display. However, Peaks provides a few knobs to tweak it and get decent results. One cool feature is that you can take a picture with the information that it provides, overlaid on that picture. For example, here are a couple of pics that I took using this software.

Shanthala and I haven’t enjoyed an outing as much as we did hiking up Tunnel Mountain. Before Maya was born, hiking had been our major recreation. We sought out places that had spectacular and difficult hikes. Since her birth, we’ve not been able to hike much at all. Part of the reason was because Maya refuses to sit in any kind of sling or backpack. But today, she was a champ. This trip is hopefully the beginning of a new life in our hiking adventures.

More pictures from our trip can be seen on the pictures side of my website.

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iPhone and Maya

The laugh’s on me, I suppose. I had hoped that with the portability of the iPhone, I’d be writing more and more spontaneously. Forget women, my frequent, witty musings would garner a huge readership. Alas! Courting creativity, I ended up courting RSI.  One entry and my right arm is in pain, from the shoulder to the elbow and my pointer finger. And Shanthala is mad at my love affair with this gadget. After all the superior airs and snickering at people with heads perpetually bowed at the altar of little bright screens, you’ve turned into one of them, she said. And the pain in my arm is punishment for all that snickering, I suppose.

But one thing she can’t argue about. The phone is a really effective, compact camera. With it, I’ve been able to capture Maya in so many different settings that I had not been able to before. The phone is always with me, making photography a snap decision, no planning required.

So, for what will probably be my last posting from the iPhone, here is a gallery of pictures of Maya in different settings.

Maya In The Park

Maya loves to climb. Even as young as 20 months, she was attempting structures that parents of much older kids shied away from. And with time she’s only gotten more proficient, attempting stunts such as kissing Shanthala through the bars as she climbs up.

Up, Up, Up

Up Another Difficult Structure

How do you like to go up in a swing,
Up in the air so blue?
Oh, I do think it the pleasantest thing
Ever a child can do!                                        – The Swing, Robert Louis Stevenson

Maya couldn’t agree with Stevenson more. Her second favorite activity in the park is to swing. She’s just past two and she already swings by herself, I only have to seat her.

Maya also loves seesaws of all kinds, going up and down with kids older than her. She pumps her legs powerfully, surprising us with how much movement she can get out of the thing, even with older kids on the other side.

Standup SeeSaw

Maya Elsewhere

Besides the park, I’ve been able to capture Maya in other places such as twirling to music at the farmers’ market or listening intently to a concert by a popular local band at a cafe.

Twirling to Music At The Farmers’ Market

Listening to Houston Jones

And the piece d’resistance is this picture of Maya attempting to skateboard.

Skateboarding

And so I must rest my weary arm, with fewer words than before and the hope that these pictures spoke far more eloquently than I could.